For Men
We know that an unplanned pregnancy can create questions with no easy answers. Let’s talk.
We’ll help you understand your options and rights. Because everyone should have access to this information, our services are provided free of charge.
Questions you may have:
- She’s pregnant, what now?
- What’s this going to cost me? (Abortion, Child Support, etc.)
- Is the baby mine?
- What are my legal rights?
- Should we tell our parents?
- What are the effects of abortion? (To me, to her)
- What about my education?
- Can she abort without my consent?
- What about adoption?
- What does she expect from me?
Our Advice
Here’s some quick advice that might help you right now. Click each step to learn more.
Listen
The situation involves more than just you. There are now three lives to think about.
Stay calm
She needs your support now more than ever. She may be carrying the baby, but you are BOTH parents, and regardless of your relationship in the future, that baby needs you, too.
Talk about it
Not only with each other, but prepare to talk with parents and others close to the situation. Hiding the news from people who can genuinely help you only increases the stress.
Gather all the facts
Get all the information and seek wise counsel so you can make the best decision for both of you.
Express yourself honestly
It’s normal to have feelings of anger, frustration and fear. But make sure she knows she is not alone. Don’t bail. The more you run from this, the harder it becomes to think and act clearly.
Don’t pressure her
Applying pressure will only push her away, possibly into a regretful situation. You will do well to work together as a team.
Don’t forget
You have a very active role in this situation. Listen to input as well as give your thoughts.
Your concerns and decisions are important.
Whether you are considering abortion, adoption or parenting, we’ll listen and answer your questions.
Call for your own confidential appointment: 970-871-1307, or text 970-819-3603.